Category Archives: NLP

Ken Wilber on Spiral Dynamics

For more extracts and to order a copy click here >> KW: In Integral Psychology I present charts that summarize over 100 developmental psychologists, East and West, ancient and modern and postmodern. Spiral Dynamics is only one of the 100, … Continue reading

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Managing assholes, step one

I saw this quote by William Gibson: “Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes” If you are then step 2 is to consider the question: … Continue reading

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Zero effort meditation … sounds too good to be true?

If someone told you that it was possible to reduce stress and pain, improve physical health, promote inner well-being and even psychic abilities with no personal effort and an almost insignificant financial investment what would you think?  Sounds too good … Continue reading

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The presuppositions of NLP

Here are some of the presuppositions (things we come into a situation assuming) often associated with NLP.  They are not ‘true’ as such … more of a handrail when developing the attitude of curiosity and wanton experimentation. The map is … Continue reading

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Relationships: Becoming aligned

This article was first published in humanHi magazine in January 2009. An hour or so ago I was hard at work … in bed, with my eyes shut, awake but dreaming. Dreaming that my job for the day was over; … Continue reading

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Relationships: Making space for someone new

This article was first published in humanHi magazine in November 2008. Being connected To me being connected with someone means that you have feelings associated with them. Those feelings can either be positive such as love, compassion, trust and pride; … Continue reading

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Relationships: Knowing what you want

Originally published in September 2008 by humanHi magasine. Know what you want and why If you ask some people what they are looking for in a partner they will often say something like “I don’t have a type, I’m not … Continue reading

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A temporal conception of higher self

Published by humanHi magasine in 2008. Isolation and loneliness When I was about 8 years old I was the only one not to bow my head in assembly when we were told ‘let us pray’.  I felt embarrassed at being … Continue reading

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Can you hypnotise me to change?

People often hope that they can come and be ‘put under’ for an hour while a hypnotist changes them and walk out a different person.  This is created by the ‘Stop smoking in an hour’, ‘I can make you slim’ … Continue reading

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