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Comment on Anxiety treatment by Richard Evans-Lacey

Richard Evans-Lacey — Sun, 29 Jan 2012 18:12:42 +0000

Hi Kathleen,

Thanks for your comment. What does ‘dropped me out’ mean? Is that as a result of your anxious behaviour or a suspected cause?

I may be able to help. Do you live in London?

Regards,

Comment on Anxiety treatment by Kathleen McNicholas

Kathleen McNicholas — Sun, 29 Jan 2012 13:46:39 +0000

I suffer terrible anxitey attacks. I wiorry about everything. My best friend for 33years dropped me out. It is always playing on my mind. Have,nt an idea why.
Can you help me please.
Thank you.
Kathleen.

Comment on Managing assholes, step one by John Friel

John Friel — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 16:39:43 +0000

It easy to say avoid assholes.But there are so many situations, where you can not aviod such people.Is it not also your own personal perception of who has this label? My late Mother was Bi-Polar and i had one label attached, with personality Disorder, with paranoid traits.I totally reject the label, as this is used, when they don’t know what is wrong? I have recently had to start taking blood presure tablets.Which are making me so down and try to tell GP.There must be a correlation, between the psychological health and the physical symptoms? I have spent years going round and around.The stigma i attach to myself is heartbreaking.In my experience.It is the people in Psycharity which are at question.

Comment on Anxiety treatment by jane

jane — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 19:11:38 +0000

Reading the above information is amazng. I have had anxiety for majjority of my life so much so, I am agrophobic and have been for 25yrs. I have no life outside my home. It is a very lonely existance. I have tried so many different form s of treatment……open mindede existed about it, only hypnosis worked but I had three years of it to assist curing me, then incident happened and bame fully phobic again ?

Comment on Boundaries, confusion, and control by Richard Evans-Lacey

Richard Evans-Lacey — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 12:24:41 +0000

That’s how I would share it too. Takes me to a weird ‘are you sure?’ page … but then you can click through. Try it with http://www.psychicplumbing... perhaps?

Thanks for sharing.

Comment on Boundaries, confusion, and control by friedensreich hundertwasser

friedensreich hundertwasser — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 12:16:06 +0000

nice post!
i cant share this link : https://psychicplumbing.com/2011/03/06/boundaries-confusion-and-control
am i doing it wrong ?

Comment on Ken Wilber on Spiral Dynamics by Richard Evans-Lacey

Richard Evans-Lacey — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 17:17:16 +0000

Hi Noel,

I like the metaphor of self as garden. I think many of the plants in our gardens have either been planted by other people, such as the property developers who built it (our parents), or blown in by chance as seeds on the wind. I guess it is up to the current gardener to decide which are plants and which are weeds.

Formal flower beds surrounding a pristine lawn don’t really do it for me. I prefer a low maintenance garden with big statement plants, a good barbecue area, and a bit of decking for a table and chairs. I wonder what that says about me?

Happy New Year!
R

Comment on Ken Wilber on Spiral Dynamics by Noel Bell

Noel Bell — Sun, 25 Dec 2011 21:45:01 +0000

Hi Richard, what are your views if we think of a garden, our personality is what we plant in the garden, the trees and the shrubbery. Character is defined by how we tender the garden, as in transpersonal therapy we create the fertile soil, the inner marriage with our inner selves?

Comment on I’m procrastinating my life away by Richard Evans-Lacey

Richard Evans-Lacey — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 10:18:43 +0000

I’m glad you found the post interesting and I hope you didn’t go hungry. Probably not ironic though:

Now, back to my ironing…

Comment on I’m procrastinating my life away by Elektrische Zahnbuerste

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Comment on My philosophy by Raph

Raph — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 04:12:31 +0000

Your write up is an interesting one.

Comment on Summary of tools by Richard Evans-Lacey

Richard Evans-Lacey — Sat, 20 Aug 2011 13:53:02 +0000

Hi Lidia,
How long have I been sitting for? Not exactly sure what you mean by this but I’ve been practicing as a therapist since 2002 and I have been trusting my intuition increasingly for the last 4 years or so.
My experience of spiritual stuff is that I feel the edges of energy in and around my clients and questions / directions for enquiry seem to come to me.
When I’m feeling the edge of energy it’s like I am gently touching, never forcing, perhaps acting as a kind of bridge from one side of the edge to the other. As the edge moves or softens I know how to pace my questions. For a ‘talking therapy’ there is much time when there is real world silence and plenty is going on energetically.
When I am working with a client’s ancestors through their imagination it sometimes happens that the general direction of a question comes to me (often without even putting it in words) and I get a rush of energy through my body. I interpret this as a good sign of that direction being a good one to explore.
I don’t have a concept of a spirit guide and I don’t generally see faces or much else. I am hoping that my visual sense will develop over time.
Does that answer your question?
Richard.

Comment on Psychotherapy for individuals by Richard Evans-Lacey

Richard Evans-Lacey — Sat, 20 Aug 2011 13:36:43 +0000

Hi Libi,
‘Ancestral debt’ is not a term that I use. Can you give me a bit more context and then I’ll be happy to give my perspective.
All the best,
Richard.

Comment on Psychotherapy for individuals by ayrborne reborne

ayrborne reborne — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 23:36:48 +0000

hi there please to meet you, please explain in as much detail as you can to me the meanings of family and ancestrial debts please. much obligied libi c

Comment on Summary of tools by ayrborne reborne

ayrborne reborne — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 18:09:01 +0000

how long have you been sitting for and names and faces of your spirit guide and spirit healers please. i am very very interested in your work my dear sir. lidia p

Comment on Ju-Jitsu with your inner child by Boyan

Boyan — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 07:51:53 +0000

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Comment on Psychotherapy for individuals by Richard Evans-Lacey

Richard Evans-Lacey — Fri, 27 May 2011 16:45:56 +0000

Hi Sam,

Sorry to hear of your experience. This is what happens when well meaning hypnotherapists try to force behavioural change in without resolving the underlying issues. The good news is that, if you changed, then you can change back. My work is about revealing the real issues and creating space for them to resolve. The key here sounds like getting to the bottom of the self-destruction …

Guesses: Are you angry with yourself? Because you believe you are guilty about something? For being a bad person? Who made you feel that way?

Mostly the deepest feelings of guilt do not actually belong to the person who is feeling them. Mostly.

Please feel free to telephone me or let me know a number I can get you on so we can chat about your options.

All the best,

Richard.

Comment on Psychotherapy for individuals by sam

sam — Fri, 27 May 2011 16:28:06 +0000

hi richard,
I was hypnotised to help me quit smoking about a year ago, it lasted just about a month then started smoking again, the therapy has left me with some pretty severe guilt issues as he tied it into my personal life and career – is there a way, in your perspective, of reversing these effects as well as finally putting a stop to all my self-destructive habits?

Comment on Psychotherapy for individuals by Richard Evans-Lacey

Richard Evans-Lacey — Wed, 16 Mar 2011 19:42:04 +0000

Probably. If you give me a bell then we can talk.
I’m guessing from the question that you have some kind of compulsion to bite them and it is causing some other kind of problem like pain in the fingers. Unlike some other ‘therapists’ I will NOT to put more rules / suggestions over the top of the issue (e.g. to hypnotise you to believe that your fingers taste disgusting). This adds more tensions into a body that is already stressed. Instead I work with people to reveal the sensations that they are avoiding by doing the compulsive behaviour … to face them, feel them, follow them, and release them. This often involves starting at the symptom and working back into deeper issues. Anything else is just papering over the cracks and can cause more problems later on.
How does that sound to you?

Comment on Psychotherapy for individuals by Lewis

Lewis — Wed, 16 Mar 2011 19:30:35 +0000

Hello Richard,

I’m a nail biter, can you help me?